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找个靠谱的 确实有难度~ 要有信心，一起加油～

大龄离异青年，最近开始网上征婚，也就大家所谓的挂牌，觉得很失落，陆续有人发message联系我，想要多了解一些的人很少，有一个起初聊的还行，我觉得他各方面还不错，他有一天突然打电话说要一起吃饭，可是我当时有个项目要交，晚上要加班，就说约在周末吧，他说好。到了周末他一直没有消息，就主动发信息跟他聊天，他态度变化很大，基本只有我问他答，而且说周末去远州看亲戚回来再约。结果这个周末还是没消息，我就问他是否回来了，他说还没有，我明知道这是个借口，还是硬着头皮问来答去，直到他说要去吃饭了，再聊！我就狠狠心把他的联络方式删掉了。算是死了这条心。你们打击我吧，我全接受。 其它联系我的老外和华人，要么是比我大太多，要么看上去不面善，不敢也没兴趣接触，还有就是太远，move到一起的可能性很小。我主动发信息的有三个，一概没有回复，我也不知道该怎么开头，每次就是说Hi，唉恐怕自己是嫁不出去了。说实话我长的不丑，外形还可以，工作也不错，不知怎么得，就是没有缘分出现，再加上自己平时太宅了，工作累了也不喜欢出门。难道就这样孤老终生吗？  各位有什么建议尽管提！[url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68981668#68981668][/url]

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68983862#68983862]6楼qqshlz2的帖子[/url] 火柴网

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68981907#68981907]2楼nali313的帖子[/url] 挂了半个月，也许是介绍太简单，也许是发信内容不够积极总之问题多多

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68982321#68982321]3楼pineapple5571的帖子[/url] 火柴网

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68982461#68982461]4楼xiaobuding0110的帖子[/url] 谢谢mm

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68983799#68983799]5楼随遇而安2015的帖子[/url] 谢谢mm

...到了周末他一直没有消息，就主动发信息跟他聊天... [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68981668#68981668][/url]

他说了没做，那时就不必搭理他。如果真的有原因，他应后来主动解释的，而不是你问他原因。

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68985166#68985166]14楼roseel的帖子[/url] 谢谢mm的鼓励

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68984230#68984230]12楼Richin的帖子[/url] 谢谢你,期待！

Eh也可以找到国男么？

match 不是很靠谱呢  建议楼主挂EH 我就是在那遇到现在的LG的 我也是很宅的大龄青年 心境放平和一些 是你的总是会出现 不管他现在在哪 一定不要灰心哦 总有一个属于你的他在前方等你 加油哦[url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68985166#68985166][/url]

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68984388#68984388]13楼HappyOranges的帖子[/url] 这个的确是我不成熟的地方，明知道是借口，还非要问问，大概是周末太闲了，我要去运动，给自己找点事情做，充实一下。谢谢mm

我发现随着单身女性年龄的增长，男人对女人的容忍度在急剧下降，比如同一个男人，遇到年龄小的漂亮的任凭其怎么作都会耐心很久，而大龄女性老实巴交的憨憨厚厚的反倒被他们更容易抛弃，所谓no作nodie，大概是黑暗前的黎明吧

我发现随着单身女性年龄的增长，男人对女人的容忍度在急剧下降，比如同一个男人，遇到年龄小的漂亮的任凭其怎么作都会耐心很久，而大龄女性老实巴交的憨憨厚厚的反倒被他们更容易抛弃，所谓no作nodie，大概是黑暗前的黎明吧 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68986528#68986528][/url]

说句不好听的，老实巴交的不就是等着人欺负吗？

我是男人也会觉得老实巴交的没意思

刚才我收到一个白男的信想要一起去散步，前提是我俩online chat了一小会儿，但我读了他的profile觉得他没有要找seirous relationship的意思，就赶紧说自己有事下线了。不知是不是我对他的自我介绍有误解， 反正是有点没看懂， 请帮忙看看 I know what you are thinking....."There is no way a guy this attractive would ever be interested in me." Don't sell yourself short...take a chance. Ya just never know. So what are you looking for ? Showering regularly and brushing my teeth are just things I do. Watch out for the other creeps on here. That is positive advertising with negative re-enforcement. I am by far the best catch on Match and without a doubt the funniest person I have ever met. Don't be shy its all about having fun right? Just renewed my acct. at a 50% discount. You know you are jealous and this does not make you a cheap date. Please have a sense of humor, a pulse and the trifecta would be teeth. I can hold an intelligent conversation about anything. I have my opinions and they are usually right. If you are local and know the little guy standing next to me is ...you are gold. !! I hate, well fear, sharks and have convinced myself if entering the water I will be selected out and partially eaten. Thanks Mr Speilberg! Spiders are a close second

对照之前有个女人外貌的帖子看看几分。。。

大龄离异青年，最近开始网上征婚，也就大家所谓的挂牌，觉得很失落，陆续有人发message联系我，想要多了解一些的人很少，有一个起初聊的还行，我觉得他各方面还不错，他有一天突然打电话说要一起吃饭，可是我当时有个项目要交，晚上要加班，就说约在周末吧，他说好。到了周末他一直没有消息，就主动发信息跟他聊天，他态度变化很大，基本只有我问他答，而且说周末去远州看亲戚回来再约。结果这个周末还是没消息，我就问他是否回来了，他说还没有，我明知道这是个借口，还是硬着头皮问来答去，直到他说要去吃饭了，再聊！我就狠狠心把他的联络方式删掉了。算是死了这条心。你们打击我吧，我全接受。 其它联系我的老外和华人，要么是比我大太多，要么看上去不面善，不敢也没兴趣接触，还有就是太远，move到一起的可能性很小。我主动发信息的有三个，一概没有回复，我也不知道该怎么开头，每次就是说Hi，唉恐怕自己是嫁不出去了。说实话我长的不丑，外形还可以，工作也不错，不知怎么得，就是没有缘分出现，再加上自己平时太宅了，工作累了也不喜欢出门。难道就这样孤老终生吗？  各位有什么建议尽管提！[url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68981668#68981668][/url]

刚才我收到一个白男的信想要一起去散步，前提是我俩online chat了一小会儿，但我读了他的profile觉得他没有要找seirous relationship的意思，就赶紧说自己有事下线了。不知是不是我对他的自我介绍有误解， 反正是有点没看懂， 请帮忙看看 I know what you are thinking....."There is no way a guy this attractive would ever be interested in me." Don't sell yourself short...take a chance. Ya just never know. So what are you looking for ? Showering regularly and brushing my teeth are just things I do. Watch out for the other creeps on here. That is positive advertising with negative re-enforcement. I am by far the best catch on Match and without a doubt the funniest person I have ever met. Don't be shy its all about having fun right? Just renewed my acct. at a 50% discount. You know you are jealous and this does not make you a cheap date. Please have a sense of humor, a pulse and the trifecta would be teeth. I can hold an intelligent conversation about anything. I have my opinions and they are usually right. If you are local and know the little guy standing next to me is ...you are gold. !! I hate, well fear, sharks and have convinced myself if entering the water I will be selected out and partially eaten. Thanks Mr Speilberg! Spiders are a close second [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68989161#68989161][/url]

此人太自大了吧，打压你的自信，自以为很幽默。一封信从第一句话开始就满满的deal breakers也是很少见到。再加上first date约散步，大有cheap的嫌疑。

刚才我收到一个白男的信想要一起去散步，前提是我俩online chat了一小会儿，但我读了他的profile觉得他没有要找seirous relationship的意思，就赶紧说自己有事下线了。不知是不是我对他的自我介绍有误解， 反正是有点没看懂， 请帮忙看看 I know what you are thinking....."There is no way a guy this attractive would ever be interested in me." Don't sell yourself short...take a chance. Ya just never know. So what are you looking for ? Showering regularly and brushing my teeth are just things I do. Watch out for the other creeps on here. That is positive advertising with negative re-enforcement. I am by far the best catch on Match and without a doubt the funniest person I have ever met. Don't be shy its all about having fun right? Just renewed my acct. at a 50% discount. You know you are jealous and this does not make you a cheap date. Please have a sense of humor, a pulse and the trifecta would be teeth. I can hold an intelligent conversation about anything. I have my opinions and they are usually right. If you are local and know the little guy standing next to me is ...you are gold. !! I hate, well fear, sharks and have convinced myself if entering the water I will be selected out and partially eaten. Thanks Mr Speilberg! Spiders are a close second [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68989161#68989161][/url]

感觉挺有病的，不用浪费时间在这种人身上吧，不象是想找个人踏实过日子的

姑娘别失去信心。 一开始挂牌肯定是每天都想有收获的，但是网上这么大海捞针，找到靠谱的不容易呀。一开始时候就当练手吧，别把这个当作生活全部，该做啥做啥，丰富自己。遇到有人发信给你的时候也不要太想这想那的，我的原则是，若果第一封邮件里没有提任何和我个人资料有联系的东西，或者很明显群发，以及一看就不靠谱的我是绝对不理睬的。姑娘新收到的这封邮件肯定是群发，我收到过类似的，频率不少。姑娘需要保持不卑不亢，这种人略过就好。会碰到靠谱的的。 我在网上挂了3年，从不主动联系人。差不多1年前认识现在老公，结婚差不多2个月啦。 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=69009461#69009461][/url]

MM挂的哪个网站？。。。。。

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=69009461#69009461]29楼lisailu的帖子[/url] 谢谢鼓励，mm挂的哪个网站？

刚才我收到一个白男的信想要一起去散步，前提是我俩online chat了一小会儿，但我读了他的profile觉得他没有要找seirous relationship的意思，就赶紧说自己有事下线了。不知是不是我对他的自我介绍有误解， 反正是有点没看懂， 请帮忙看看 I know what you are thinking....."There is no way a guy this attractive would ever be interested in me." Don't sell yourself short...take a chance. Ya just never know. So what are you looking for ? Showering regularly and brushing my teeth are just things I do. Watch out for the other creeps on here. That is positive advertising with negative re-enforcement. I am by far the best catch on Match and without a doubt the funniest person I have ever met. Don't be shy its all about having fun right? Just renewed my acct. at a 50% discount. You know you are jealous and this does not make you a cheap date. Please have a sense of humor, a pulse and the trifecta would be teeth. I can hold an intelligent conversation about anything. I have my opinions and they are usually right. If you are local and know the little guy standing next to me is ...you are gold. !! I hate, well fear, sharks and have convinced myself if entering the water I will be selected out and partially eaten. Thanks Mr Speilberg! Spiders are a close second [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68989161#68989161][/url]

我读了后觉得蛮funny的，呵呵，可以和他见个面。

大龄离异青年，最近开始网上征婚，也就大家所谓的挂牌，觉得很失落，陆续有人发message联系我，想要多了解一些的人很少，有一个起初聊的还行，我觉得他各方面还不错，他有一天突然打电话说要一起吃饭，可是我当时有个项目要交，晚上要加班，就说约在周末吧，他说好。到了周末他一直没有消息，就主动发信息跟他聊天，他态度变化很大，基本只有我问他答，而且说周末去远州看亲戚回来再约。结果这个周末还是没消息，我就问他是否回来了，他说还没有，我明知道这是个借口，还是硬着头皮问来答去，直到他说要去吃饭了，再聊！我就狠狠心把他的联络方式删掉了。算是死了这条心。你们打击我吧，我全接受。 其它联系我的老外和华人，要么是比我大太多，要么看上去不面善，不敢也没兴趣接触，还有就是太远，move到一起的可能性很小。我主动发信息的有三个，一概没有回复，我也不知道该怎么开头，每次就是说Hi，唉恐怕自己是嫁不出去了。说实话我长的不丑，外形还可以，工作也不错，不知怎么得，就是没有缘分出现，再加上自己平时太宅了，工作累了也不喜欢出门。难道就这样孤老终生吗？ 各位有什么建议尽管提！ [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68981668#68981668][/url]

男生不是很喜欢女生主动，所以如果你主动，是个turn-off。

回复 [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=69014625#69014625]33楼Write2staceyz的帖子[/url] 說的沒錯，即便開始是他主動的，好像主動權總是在男生手裡，除非熟悉了，女生不喜歡他

谢谢鼓励，mm挂的哪个网站？ [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=69014483#69014483][/url]

先是match,然后是 eharmony 和 chemistry

bless mm！

大龄离异青年，最近开始网上征婚，也就大家所谓的挂牌，觉得很失落，陆续有人发message联系我，想要多了解一些的人很少，有一个起初聊的还行，我觉得他各方面还不错，他有一天突然打电话说要一起吃饭，可是我当时有个项目要交，晚上要加班，就说约在周末吧，他说好。到了周末他一直没有消息，就主动发信息跟他聊天，他态度变化很大，基本只有我问他答，而且说周末去远州看亲戚回来再约。结果这个周末还是没消息，我就问他是否回来了，他说还没有，我明知道这是个借口，还是硬着头皮问来答去，直到他说要去吃饭了，再聊！我就狠狠心把他的联络方式删掉了。算是死了这条心。你们打击我吧，我全接受。 其它联系我的老外和华人，要么是比我大太多，要么看上去不面善，不敢也没兴趣接触，还有就是太远，move到一起的可能性很小。我主动发信息的有三个，一概没有回复，我也不知道该怎么开头，每次就是说Hi，唉恐怕自己是嫁不出去了。说实话我长的不丑，外形还可以，工作也不错，不知怎么得，就是没有缘分出现，再加上自己平时太宅了，工作累了也不喜欢出门。难道就这样孤老终生吗？  各位有什么建议尽管提！[url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68981668#68981668][/url]

刚才我收到一个白男的信想要一起去散步，前提是我俩online chat了一小会儿，但我读了他的profile觉得他没有要找seirous relationship的意思，就赶紧说自己有事下线了。不知是不是我对他的自我介绍有误解， 反正是有点没看懂， 请帮忙看看 I know what you are thinking....."There is no way a guy this attractive would ever be interested in me." Don't sell yourself short...take a chance. Ya just never know. So what are you looking for ? Showering regularly and brushing my teeth are just things I do. Watch out for the other creeps on here. That is positive advertising with negative re-enforcement. I am by far the best catch on Match and without a doubt the funniest person I have ever met. Don't be shy its all about having fun right? Just renewed my acct. at a 50% discount. You know you are jealous and this does not make you a cheap date. Please have a sense of humor, a pulse and the trifecta would be teeth. I can hold an intelligent conversation about anything. I have my opinions and they are usually right. If you are local and know the little guy standing next to me is ...you are gold. !! I hate, well fear, sharks and have convinced myself if entering the water I will be selected out and partially eaten. Thanks Mr Speilberg! Spiders are a close second [url=http://forums.huaren.us/showtopic.aspx?topicid=1882321&postid=68989161#68989161][/url]

Give him the finger and let him disappear ASAP